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Dumb Blonde


Aug 14, 2019

Bunnie welcomes the super hot and mysterious femme fatale, Mistress Neena, aka Neena De Ville. She makes her clients’ deepest fantasies come true, and even shares a few of her favorites. She also explains what it is a dominatrix actually does, how she got into it, and gives a glimpse into working in the kink and fetish industry. Mistress Neena shares what she will and won't do and her specialty fetishes, and what it means to be a submissive. Welcome to the dungeon, weirdos.

 

Takeaways:

  • Mistress Neena has been a professional dominatrix for two years, and now has her own play space including all the good whips and toys. She has always been a powerful woman, and loves working with people to make their deepest, darkest fantasies come to life.
  • Neena’s advice to people looking to find a dom - do your research. Make sure the person you pick is in it for the right reasons and has some sense of safety and respect for both parties.
  • The one thing both Neena and Bunnie really don’t like? Being tickled. Stop!
  • A “sub” or submissive conforms to the authority of Neena, and willingly (and very happily) follows her orders.
  • Every person has different fetishes, and that’s okay. Neena sees it all - everything from whips and chains to worship, humiliation and even food play or “sploshing”.
  • Yes, there is a thing called small penis humiliation. It’s about reclaiming a fear they have and reframing it to make it sexual and to make it a turn on instead of something negative.
  • Chastity is one of Neena’s favorites. This is where she has the key to a man’s d*ck, and they can’t do anything without her.
  • Shibari, the beautiful art of Japanese rope bondage, is another one of Neena’s faves.
  • A large part of what makes Neena a true professional is that she is very aware of hurting someone (if that is what their fantasy allows) without damaging them seriously.
  • Neena is only a dom, and never a sub. A switch is someone that can do both dom and sub.
  • Ladies, listen up! Neena is bi and loves playing with women, and wishes more came to her.
  • Neena doesn’t sleep with her clients, and it is sexual, but it is more psychosexual.

 

Quotes:

  • “The stranger the better for me, and the more exciting it is for me.”
  • “I love reading people’s dirty little secrets.”
  • “Chastity is the best way to control men. You can get a man to do anything you want when you have his cock locked up.”
  • “Don’t settle for a man who won’t accept you for who you are.”

 

Mentioned:

Jelly Roll

Mistress Neena De Ville

@mistress_neena

Mistress Neena

Fetishes (movie on Pandora’s Box)

Dungeon East

Mistress Adrienne

 

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